If so, you might want to examine your motivestrying to get her current guy could be an extension of your desire to outdo her.
She knows I like him and he likes me, but I don’t think she’s ever really thought about us getting together. Being with your bestie’s brother can be really awkward for everyone.
The couples had been together for as few as three months to as long as 53 years, with an average relationship length of eight years and eight months.
a well-documented phenomenon psychological scientists refer to as “assortative mating”), Hunt and colleagues Paul Eastwick (UT-Austin) and Eli Finkel (Northwestern University) looked at data collected from 167 couples — 67 dating and 100 married.
Dear Heather, Heather, I’m just going to come out and say it: I like my best friend’s brother. I’m going to warn you right now that dating your best friend’s brother is probably a bad idea.
I’ve liked him for years and apparently he likes me too, and he has for a while. Sure, there are times when it works out, but in general, I’d advise against getting involved in this kind of situation.